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Post by erica21 on Sept 19, 2002 22:19:38 GMT -5
TEXTTEXTHi everyone!
My name is Erica and my son Nicholas is 15 months old. He is so wonderful. I am new here and I am interested in talking to other parents with DS kids. I don't know anyone else in my situation. It would be nice to make some friends here that I could talk to about things that others just don't understand. I feel very alone. Nicholas's father doesn't see him very often. We haven't been together for a while now and so I guess I feel overwelmed to be doing this all by myself. I;m only 20 years old and I don't even know anyone my age with kids let alone one with DS. If anyone is interested in chatting, please e-mail me at Ematreca@aol.com or just reply back on the message board. Thanks for listening.
Sincerely,
Erica
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Post by Staci on Sept 19, 2002 23:05:41 GMT -5
Hi Erica, Well, first of all...welcome to UnoMas! You will love it here, and everyone here is so supportive! You can ask anything, and feel free to anytime! My name is Staci, and I have a 2 year old (he's two today!) named Aidan Matthew. He's my husbands and my first and only kiddo. We didn't know he had DS until after he was born, and were totally shocked (to say the least). We were fairly young and just didn't think this could happen to us! Well, we've learned a lot since Aidan was born. He's the light of our lives, he's a joy, he can be a stinker, and we have learned so much from him! I would love to chat with you, anytime! Feel free to email me at lanea24@hotmail.com . Aidan has a website if you would like to see pictures of him. It's at: www.geocities.com/lanea242000/index.htmlI can't wait to get to know more about you and Nicholas! Take care, and talk to you soon! Staci |
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Post by Debi on Sept 19, 2002 23:27:10 GMT -5
Hi Erica and welcome, welcome to Uno Mas. If you want to make friends, this is the place to do it. I am mom to Gabe, who is a big kid now (eleven) and his older sister Ariel. Feel free to write any time here or on the message board..my e-mail is obriend@bel-net.com.
You won't feel alone very long!! The peope on this board are the best bunch I've ever met!
STACI btw HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Mr. Aidan Matthew!! You guys are lucky to still have boys who still want to cuddle and actually WANT their Mom LOL!
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Post by 2xboy on Sept 20, 2002 5:46:38 GMT -5
Hi Erica,
Welcome!! I'm Patty..mom to 2 boys..Lucas is 4 and Justin will be 7 months next week. I did not know about Justin having DS until after he was born and yes as everyone said...what a shock.
I found this board when Justin was 8 weeks old and it was one of the best things for me. All I did for 8 weeks was listen to doctors and read about DS...needless to say, I got even more depressed. Talking to experienced moms who are going through the same thing has been extremely positive and helpful. All; the people here are really down to earth and extremely supportive. I know this will help you too.
Again, welcome and I really look forward to hearing more about you and your son.
Patty
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Post by Alice on Sept 20, 2002 7:57:57 GMT -5
Hi Erica, Welcome to Uno Mas!!! I am Alice mom of 3 boys, my little one(who will be 3 in November) has DS. BTW, my olderst son is 20 like you.  My middle son is 12. I can understand how you feel in you situation, but please stay here and you will have lots of friends and support you need. Also you will meet girls who had their first baby(with DS) at you age. I think it would be nice if they will talk to you. And sure you can e-mail me with any questions. You are not alone. Alice. |
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Post by justinsmom on Sept 20, 2002 12:28:49 GMT -5
Welcome Erica and you have found a great site. You are no longer along we are all here for you and each other so any questions just ask. You can e-mail me also anytime I'm usually a nite owl too. My e-mail is listed in my profile. Hope to hear more about you and Nicholas and it was great chatting with you last nite. We were a little crazy but the laughs were much needed ;D Hope to see you out there sunday nite.
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Post by justinsmom on Sept 20, 2002 12:54:25 GMT -5
OOOOOooops forgot to introduce myself. I'm Jackie mom to Justin 2yrs. and 2 daughters Alyssa 10 and MS.Ashley 5yrs going on 18 lol. Justin has ds and we also didn't know until after he was born.
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Post by kevin on Sept 20, 2002 13:38:00 GMT -5
Erica, Welcome to the UnoMas family! I found this site a couple weeks after my daughter, Morgan, was born. Whenever I get down in the dumps, I can always come here and read uplifting stories of our children's triumphs and funny stuff they do. After all, we are all one big family here. Do not be shy about your posts. If you need to vent, have at it. Many people here will understand exactly where you are coming from and may be able to offer help, even if only offering a few words of encouragement. When your champ, Nicholas, does something you're really proud and excited about, *definetly* tell us about it! If you don't understand something a doctor says, or have any questions of any sort, ask. Someone will have an answer. The wealth of knowledge and support here is simply amazing. Take advantage of it and be sure to post some mug shots of Nicholas so we can all get to know him better. Keep your chin up. God didn't make a mistake in choosing you for Nicholas' mother. It won't always be easy, but your efforts will be rewarded. And when you're feeling down, give Nicholas a big ole hug and come talk to us. |
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Post by Cathy on Sept 20, 2002 13:58:30 GMT -5
Hi Erica.... I am Cathy, mom to Katie. She will be two in November. I am glad you made it over here to the new board.. you will meet a lot of wonderful people! I missed you last night on Chat....hope those girls were nice to you! If not let me know... I will get on them for you! Unomas is a wonderful place to come for information or support... or just a hug when you need it! Please let us know how Nicholas is doing! Hey... post a pic or two. Hugs and welcome! Cathy ps... here is Katies webpage www.webspawner.com/users/katiefaccin/index.html |
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Post by Lori on Sept 20, 2002 19:38:04 GMT -5
 Hi Erica!! I'm Lori, and my son Marcel will be one year old on the 30th.  I too, am young; only 23. I sometimes feel overwhelmed being so young. Even though I'm married I still feel lonely at times. I don't know anyone here in Idaho with a Downie that I can relate to. I would love to chat with you. If you want, and when you are ready. I'll give you my phone number if you really want to chat sometimes. Just email me at littlebearlori@cs.com
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Post by Debbie on Sept 21, 2002 18:30:30 GMT -5
Hello Erica! I am Debbie. I am not a parent but an adult who has Down syndrome. I have Mosaic Down syndrome. You will never feel lonely here. There are lots of people here who will understand what you are going through. I think I saw your message on the unomas message board. Post freely and you will find parents who are always there to help you. I try to encourage parents and hope I bring some hope in their life by typing my words of experience. I am forty one. My goal is to talk to parents and help them see the silver in the lining. There is so much to learn out there! You are always welcome to ask me any questions you want. Hopefully I can answer them for you. Don't let my words intimidate you. I do have Down syndrome. I have been told I am slight but I do have some learning problems and vison problems. Post away! ;D |
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Post by Kristi on Sept 23, 2002 3:57:27 GMT -5
Welcome Erica and Nicholas!!!
I am Kristi, mom to Cody 8 with DS, plus 3 girls. I was 3 days off of my 23rd B-day when I had Cody, but he was my second child.
You will find alot of friends here!! Do you have yahoo messsenger? If you do my ID is shyn20004, would love it if you would add me as a friend, and would love to chat!
hugs,
Kristi
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Post by heidi-ashlies_mom on Sept 23, 2002 12:48:52 GMT -5
Welcome I am Heidi mom to Ashlie who is 5 1/2 yrs with DS, I had ashlie when I was 18 yrs so it was very hard and i know how you feel, Youll love it here as its a GREAT place of parents and children and you can learn so much and ask anything, its a GREAT support group, Hugs Heidi
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Post by donnita on Sept 23, 2002 18:49:19 GMT -5
Welcome to UnoMas!
I'm Donnita, mom to Marissa 4 and Cassandra DS 17 months. I didn't find this site until just three months ago and I love it. I have to visit at least once a day, usually late at night because my girlies are night owls, just like me!
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My middle son is 12.
jackie
Hi Erica!! I'm Lori, and my son Marcel will be one year old on the 30th. 
I too, am young; only 23. I sometimes feel overwhelmed being so young. Even though I'm married I still feel lonely at times. I don't know anyone here in Idaho with a Downie that I can relate to. I would love to chat with you. If you want, and when you are ready. I'll give you my phone number if you really want to chat sometimes. Just email me at littlebearlori@cs.com