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Post by laurasnowbird on Dec 19, 2007 15:29:41 GMT -5
Wow, it's been six years today. Six years that passed by so quickly I can barely comprehend what I did with them, although they've been full of laughter and hugs.
When did it happen? There was a momentous, magical moment that I completely MISSED. Somewhere along the way I stopped thinking about what makes Ethan different, stopped being sad about what he couldn't do, and started celebrating the things that make him a unique person. Birthdays used to make me a little sad, because they were anniversaries of the advent of disability in my life as a mom. I thought in terms of before and after, almost as if I believed my life would never be the same again.
And of course, to be fair, it hasn't. It's been sooo much better. How I wish I could go back and share with that sad mom the rewards that lay ahead. The joy, the wonder, the magic that is Ethan. That sad mom who had no idea that she had just won life's biggest lottery!
Happiest of Birthdays to the sweetest of my boys. You are the giggles in my morning, the snuggles in my evenings, and the sunshine of my entire life! I am the luckiest Mommy in the world to have you!!!!!
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Post by lorraine on Dec 19, 2007 15:37:21 GMT -5
Happy Birthday Ethan
Hope you have a great day!
Lorraine
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Post by meghans_mom on Dec 19, 2007 16:09:12 GMT -5
Happy Birthday Ethan!
I can't believe he's 6 (even though MM turned 7 last week...I can't believe that either I guess)
Enjoy your special day!
hugs, laurie & MM
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Post by laurasmom on Dec 19, 2007 16:43:54 GMT -5
Happy 6th Birthday Ethan!!
Have a great day!
Sharon, Laura and Kelly
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Post by Googsmom aka Jennifer on Dec 19, 2007 18:30:00 GMT -5
YEA.... HAPPY BIRTHDAY BIG GUY!!! HOPE IT WAS SUPER.
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Post by Myria on Dec 19, 2007 19:54:51 GMT -5
[shadow=red,left,300]Happy Birthday Ethan!! [/shadow]Hope you had a fun day!!
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Post by char on Dec 19, 2007 19:56:54 GMT -5
Happy birthday, sweet Ethan! What a wonderful name. My youngest grandson is also Ethan.
Our babies and grandbabies certainly are lottery prizes! I know I feel blessed more than words can say.
Char
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Post by Emilysmom on Dec 19, 2007 21:42:26 GMT -5
Happy birthday Ethan! ! ! I can't believe he's grown up so fast!
Susan
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Post by laurasnowbird on Dec 19, 2007 21:43:45 GMT -5
Thanks you guys! We aren't having his party until Saturday, but we had such a fun evening, even though his Dad had to work. I made his favorite dinner, then Ethan, Aidan, Victoria and I watched a movie in front of the fire. We were eating popcorn, dancing to the music, and just generally being silly and having fun. It made me realize that it is far too easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of this season and forget to have fun with the kids while I have them at home! Thanks again to my Ethan for reminding me of the simple pleasures of dancing to Christmas music, LOL!!!!!
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Post by momofrussell on Dec 19, 2007 23:02:09 GMT -5
WOW... 6 yrs? Where has the time gone? I remember him being just a wee little one in Chicago! Happy Happy Birthday Mr. Ethan!!!!!
A.
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Post by Ericsmomma on Dec 20, 2007 5:12:30 GMT -5
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY ETHAN!
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Post by alisonzmom on Dec 20, 2007 13:38:31 GMT -5
Happy, happy birthday Ethan!!! Sounds like you had a fun day and hope you have another fun time at your party on Saturday!
Laura, you said it so well..... how I wish I could back and tell that sad angry me that everything really would be okay and the joy that Alison would bring to all us far outweighs anything I could ever imagine!
Hugs to you both!!!
Barb
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Post by Deannalee on Dec 20, 2007 18:44:15 GMT -5
Happy Birthday, Ethan!!!!!!
Deanna
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Post by Valerie on Dec 21, 2007 7:54:15 GMT -5
What you wrote was beautiful. Sounds like he had a great night with his family! Happy Birthday to Ethan! ;D
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