Why is life so very very hard?

[chasesmom]

Sometimes life surprises us when least expected and deals us unfair hands. I think right now I have been dealt one of those hands and I need a huge hug so very bad ( my boys are sleeping so they cant share one with me) and if you believe in the power of prayer, please please please pray for me to have the strength I need to get thru these hard times. I have no desire to experience any of this, I dont want to go into any details, I just needed to know you are here. Why is life so hard? Why are hearts so fragile? Why do you think bad things happen to good people? Have you ever wondered if it is because we were bad in a past life and this is the penalty? Strange questions I know especially so late for one who is suspose to be up at 5.
I am just so very very sad and needed to say it. Life is no longer happy,.... amazing how we come to just expect happiness and take it for granted until it is so abruptly taken away. How it can disappear in the breath of a sentence. How your plans and hopes and dreams can leave you in the blink of an eye. I have learned I am no where near as strong as I thought I was. I am not really looking for answers, I just really felt the need to be here.
Robin

[ALLISA]

Robin, huge hugs and prayers from me...I'm sorry you are so unhappy and obviously very weary about something...I'm awake and online.....so PM me if you want.....tell me how to turn on my Yahoo chat & I will !!

And by the way....no.....bad experiences are not punishments for bad past lives. There supposed to make us stronger or some other malarkey like that.....but defintiely no....not punishment.....

PM me !!

[CC]

Awwww ROBIN, we are here for you girl
and you got it


going out to you from me here in Jersey

and

cause I love you, here is another



CC ~

[Ericsmomma]

Robin,

Hugs coming your way Girl!
I have been through MANY dark and difficult times, and the only thing that kept/ keeps me sane is my faith. And sometimes it was tuff finding it....had to dig down REAL deep..
Just hang on.....if ya want to talk, just e-mail me, k? Love, Dolly

[Emilysmom]

HUGE hugs to you Robin!!! I have been praying for you hard lately, and wishing there was something else I could do too!!! I believe you ARE very strong, and you CAN get through this.............although I know it is SO SO hard. I'm truly sorry for all the pain. I think of you every single day.

I know you were just trying to figure this all out, but I am sure you have never..............if you had 10 past lives.........NEVER done anything to deserve this pain. It's one of those things that can't be explained, and it just totally stinks. Please call if you ever want to talk, and I'll call you right back. Please know that we are thinking of you, praying for you and we care!!
I love you and your precious boys,
Susan

[Chester]

Robin~

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep your faith, you'll find strength in the darkest of times.

So Sorry you are hurting. Many hugs!

Peace~
Dawn

[Mary_L.]

Robin~I am so sorry you are going through such a hard time right now. I will pray for you everyday and hope that you get past this hard time.

[Connie]

Robin,

Hugs Girlfriend. Since I can't be there I am sending cyber hugs your way! Please know your in my thoughts and prayers.

Connie

[momofrussell]

OH HUGS HUGS HUGS my dear.... we are here for you... I am here for you... I am so sorry you are having a yucky time in life.... Call me if you need me... or PM me or whatever.... and if you need a vacation.. you pack up those kids and come see me!!!!

A.

[Becky]

Sorry you are going threw a rough time.
We are all here for you
Huge HUGS coming to you from all of us in Oklahoma

Becky

[meghans_mom]

Robin - good thoughts and many prayers for you - I am sorry to hear you are having a rough time and we ARE here for you.
even so 'they' say it isnt so - i, too, have wondered when such trials come up in our lives, especially one after the other -- that isn't it payback for bad things we have done in our other lives...its hard not to think this way sometimes.
I much prefer to think that the trials we go thru in this lifetime that we can remember somehow make our souls stronger for lifetimes to come. there is a very good book that explains all of this -- written by the psychic/medium George Anderson - I think it is the Walking in the Garden of the Souls, but t might be Lessons from the Light. I purchased both after my mom passed away and now can't remember which is which.
But that's neither here nor there - and i don't mean to make light - nor am i implying that simply reading a book will ease your load.
again - i am thinking of you and sending loads of cyber-hugs. laurie

[Alice]

HUGE HUG TO YOU!
So sorry that things are going the way you did not expected...
What ever happened, just know that you have many friends who are on your site.
PRAYERS ARE SENT! YOU ARE STRONG!

[ALLISA]

By the way Robin...although you may be strong enough to handle all you are going through remember that you don't need to be strong EVERY SECOND.....for example when you come here.....you should be all marshmallowy and soft

....be strong at home & in front of kids, but THERE IS NO NEED FOR IT HERE.....same with all your other friends ( of the non-cyber persuasion).

I learned that one the very hard way....always being strong and "putting up the front"....it got to the point that I felt bad if I WASN'T "strong" in front of others....we don't have to be all the time !!

Friends ( cyber and solid) are there especially for those non-strong times.....utilize them when you need to !!


Make sure you post back to let us know how you are !!
Allisa

[AnnieC]

Sending BIG HUGS your way Robin!!!!!!!!!




AnnieC

[andrewsmom]

Awww Robin. So sorry things aren't going well right now. Hang in there, the tide ALWAYS changes.

{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
-Trisha