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Post by steffipoo on Sept 26, 2006 12:04:55 GMT -5
hey guys and gals. Sometimes I write without taking all peoplesfeelings and considerations into account. I was sooo sad when I go to the computer this morning and come to find a controversy here about a post I am about to delete.Did NOT mean to offend and am feeling really weird about ever posting again. If I do I will with everyones feelings here in consideration.I will post about topics which require no personal feelings just facts. I am too tired and sad right now to respond to each post. i REALLY APOLOGIVE FOR STEPPING ON TOES AND DIDN'T MEAN TO.I have somuch going on I wish I could talk about but alas I can't. So I will continue on with my life and taking care of my husband who is now hospitalized and I am soo scared but would rather talk to those who can understand without getting offended. I am not perfect like some so I will never claim to be and am terribly sorry for any controvery I caused. Steff
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Post by Jessie on Sept 26, 2006 12:38:39 GMT -5
Hey Steff - I sent you a PM.
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Post by Chester on Sept 26, 2006 12:41:42 GMT -5
Steff, you've got plenty on your plate, don't give what went on here a second thought.
You voiced your opinon. Someone else didn't agree, which in itself is okay. I'm not in agreement with how it was handled though. I was worried about you from the start.
Please don't take one persons opinion about one sentence personally. I also look forward to your updates on Liv, your son, your husband and your busy life.
Take Good Care of youself and family and don't let this get you down!
Dawn
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Post by momofrussell on Sept 26, 2006 12:47:41 GMT -5
Well.. I am lost...
A.
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Post by wrblack on Sept 26, 2006 12:54:52 GMT -5
Hey, Steff, Chill. Take it easy and take care--of you and yours. And please don't crawl into a shell because you may have inadvertently stepped on some toes. Jeez, if I had crawled into a shell every time I had stepped on toes, I woulda run outa shells a long, long time ago. And please don't stop posting here. We don't want to miss out on further adventures of Liv. Many of us enjoy your contributions. Even when you put your foot in your mouth. Hmm, so how do you step on anybody's toes when you've got both feet in your mouth? d**ned if I know, but very clever of you. And quite acrobatic, too. Oh, and sorry if I just replicated your feet, feat--whatever. Regards, Bob
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Post by momofrussell on Sept 26, 2006 12:55:25 GMT -5
Ok.. I am not lost anymore... BUT.. I will say.. to Steff and whomever else.. don't EVER feel you can't post and have to take EACH and EVERYONE of us into account before posting! PLEASE! I don't! LOL.. Well,I try my best to execute my thoughts as best as possible but come on now...we can't. And debates in themselves are NOT unhealthy...would be kinda boring if we all agreed and never had debates if you ask me! I say.. post away on your feelings!! THAT goes for EVERYONE!!!!
I welcome everyone's opinions and I am hopeful we can continue to do just that.
A.
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Post by steffipoo on Sept 26, 2006 13:16:26 GMT -5
BOB You crack me up I LOVE YOU...A..well A I ADORE U Connie same goes and I got your pm thanks...Dawn thanks tooo your the best. I was a bit unnerved this morning cause I was sitting here at the table in tears about something else(a dr. grrrrrr)and came here and found this was offended then sad then mad then sad then lolol you get the picture.....Think I need to study and go see Jeff so thanks again didn't mean to be a big fat baby but am right now. Steff
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Post by kellyds on Sept 26, 2006 14:40:20 GMT -5
Steff, I PM'd you.
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Post by Emilysmom on Sept 26, 2006 20:54:35 GMT -5
Steff, I am ashamed to say that I kept quiet after your first post. My first thought was.......God bless Steff; she is ALWAYS upbeat, ALWAYS avoids any type of conflict. You have been good to give advice when needed, to cheer other parents on, and your stories about Liv have made me GRIN when I needed to most! Of all the people who would never want to step on anyone's toes, it would be you!!!!!
I have admired you for years for going through amazingly tough times while continuing to have a sense of humor and while remembering to keep us posted on your life and the fun things Liv says. PLEASE do not think twice about posting your heart out!!! We care about the times you hurt for Liv and for Jeff. Heck...........we have cared when you were hurting over your neighbor! We're family Steff........no if's ands or buts.
I'm glad to see you've gotten some private messages. But hey, none of this was private from the beginning. I want you to know...........and want to say it loud and clear that I understood exactly where you were coming from and that you were hurting. I'm sorry I didn't immediately respond to you to let you know you're in my thoughts.
Is Jeff back in the hospital?
HUGS to you and yours, Susan
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Post by Cbean on Sept 26, 2006 22:38:41 GMT -5
YOU steeping on toes, Steff??? Well I'm sure in the dark on this one and I'll stay there. You BETTER NOT go anywhere kiddo! Remember you can't please all the people all the time. Some people are bound to get bent out of shape no matter what you say. I love your posts and I love your attitude. Not to get all sappy with ya, but with all the crap I've gone through, you have truly been an inspiration to me for keeping a postitive attitude! Please don't go anywhere! I'm for just keepin' our feet under our chairs! Hugs!!!
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Post by ALLISA on Sept 26, 2006 22:43:29 GMT -5
Hi Steff.....I definitely missed out on what happened..... BUT....had to say LIVE AND FOR EVERYONE to see......that Uno would NEVER be the same without you.....I found this site right after Erin was born and you and Liv will always be tied to Uno Mas in my mind. I couldn't get enough stories about 'Liv.....they gave me so much hope. You are a wonderful inspiration.....you have so much on your plate and always seem to come back smiling. I am not sure what happened in the posts.....but I do know that disagreements and hurt feelings are 100 % expected to happen on a forum like this. We are all here to share feelings, stories and emotions.....and there is no way everyone will agree all the time. But like Susan said, we are a family and families get through $%&*...... Please don't say you are leaving us !! Love, Allisa
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Post by CC on Sept 26, 2006 23:45:42 GMT -5
STEFF STEFF STEFF ~ We LOVE you girl and you just not being here is UNACCEPTABLE Plain and simple So just you forget that idea and POST like you always due, K I am older then you, so you need to listen to me, K, not that much older well not as old as Robin anyway, ROFLMAO CC ~
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Post by Ericsmomma on Sept 26, 2006 23:54:07 GMT -5
Steff,
Not sure what's going on but.....don't stop posting! We'd miss the heck out of you and your Liv stories. We're all gonna disagree at some point...thats what makes us interesting. Hope Jeff is home soon...he's in my thoughts and prayers...keep us updated! AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF TOO!
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Post by SuziF on Sept 27, 2006 15:41:47 GMT -5
I hate to do a "Me Too"...but I've been busy as usual & have no idea what went on yesterday but I agree with Susan & A & Bob & christine, 'et al...I love ya to bits girl & we need you here ! You know we hafta be as opinionated as all get-out & I know I understand the stress you're going thru! This is home & we need ya gal! Hugs! Suzi
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Post by cindylou on Sept 27, 2006 17:32:23 GMT -5
Hey Steff- I hardly ever post anymore but popped in and read some of the goings on in the last few days. You and me--we've been around her forever! They'd have to come to my house and take my pc to get me to not come here---even if it isn't daily anymore--and I ALWAYS SHARE MY THOUGHTS, as irritated as that might make people. The truth is, we're like family here and we'll all take turns having our feelings hurt. Jeff (hidyperson) just happens to be the one stomping his feet, tantruming a bit--but it could be me tomorrow if I don't get my coffee, get to the gym, and have some good old fashion whoppee to take away the stress in life. So, don't go anywhere and certainly don't edit your posts or hold back your feelings. A sign of maturity is not being easily offended and it would be nice if people could remember that... and Jeff--if you're out there--don't take offense please, just take a deep breath and realize we all have a lot on our plates and we come here to get help. I feel like I'm talking to my big brother and little sister here--you two play nice. Take turns. Share. Use your nice words... forgettaboutit Steff--let it go and post whatever and whenever you want!!!! cindy
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