Post by Jenifer on Oct 4, 2006 21:31:21 GMT -5
Joy's behavior lately has been just plain unbearable. She will not listen to us. She does the exact opposite of what we ask her to do. She is purposely defiant and in order to get her to comply we have to threaten to remove privileges or put her in time out. Then and only then does she shape up.
She's especially bad in public, and I think it's because she knows I can't really do anything about it other than give her death glares b/c I don't want others to think I am abusing her. WHICH I AM NOT, for the record.
I am at my wits end and I am sending her to respite this weekend because I need a breather. I hate that it's come to me spending a weekend without her, but I feel like all I ever do is nag and punish her. She deserves to have some fun and I deserve a nap.
The kicker is that her P/T conference was yesterday, and her teacher says she's very obedient at school, does her routine with few problems, and is helpful to her classmates.
Her teacher suggested we implement a positive reinforcement system, and really stick to a schedule, which we are pretty good about. I always tell her in the morning what is happening for that day, and we rarely divert from the plan. We do have a lot of after school stuff, namely three therapies a week, plus dance once a week. I don't know if I should cut back a therapy or what.
I know that many kids with ds are very stubborn, and I can deal with that. But if I have to drag her kicking and screaming from the public library one more time, I don't know what I will do.
Anyone out there have some sage wisdom?
Thanks!
Jenifer, mom to Joy Daisy
She's especially bad in public, and I think it's because she knows I can't really do anything about it other than give her death glares b/c I don't want others to think I am abusing her. WHICH I AM NOT, for the record.
I am at my wits end and I am sending her to respite this weekend because I need a breather. I hate that it's come to me spending a weekend without her, but I feel like all I ever do is nag and punish her. She deserves to have some fun and I deserve a nap.
The kicker is that her P/T conference was yesterday, and her teacher says she's very obedient at school, does her routine with few problems, and is helpful to her classmates.
Her teacher suggested we implement a positive reinforcement system, and really stick to a schedule, which we are pretty good about. I always tell her in the morning what is happening for that day, and we rarely divert from the plan. We do have a lot of after school stuff, namely three therapies a week, plus dance once a week. I don't know if I should cut back a therapy or what.
I know that many kids with ds are very stubborn, and I can deal with that. But if I have to drag her kicking and screaming from the public library one more time, I don't know what I will do.
Anyone out there have some sage wisdom?
Thanks!
Jenifer, mom to Joy Daisy