Post by laurasmom on Aug 26, 2008 19:09:15 GMT -5
Vent, sort of. Probably.
At the end of last year, we knew Laura was going to the high school. Talked to the high school sped people, in transition, going to a more open program, more inclusion, etc., but everything not in place. Can we have her IEP right around school start time. Sure, I can understand that.
So, go to high school everyday for a few days before school started, to give Laura the lay of the land. This was last week. Talk to the sped dept. head. This is what we will do, here is Laura's schedule. Talk to another sped teacher, can Laura join her class 2 days a month for community service, sure that is great, I like the volunteering aspect. Talk to her "main" sped teacher, we will have to have her IEP, yes I know.
Anyway, school now in session for 4 days. Laura says she loves it. She has a locker for the first time ever, and has mastered the combination lock, thanks to a peer system they have set up. They assigned a peer, she has worked with Laura for 2 days, they called today to ask if that was okay. Well, of course it is.
Sped teacher surprised at her reading abilities. Well, I told him about her reading, guess he didn't believe Mom. She is in a class called Business Applications, included. Teacher told the sped teacher "I don't know what to do with Laura. I want her here, but what do I teach her". Sped teacher told me we would decide at her IEP what "you want her to do".
So, we have finally arrived at my vent. Yes, I can understand wanting the student and family input on education. But I am not a teacher, and I hate having teachers call me and say "I don't know what to do with her". I mean, until the IEP is held, how difficult is it to adapt something for Laura to do, to learn. And the sped teacher, come on, surely he can do something.
This is exactly why I wanted the IEP held before school started. I kept getting put off, for various reasons, why it couldn't be done. And now, her IEP is Sept. 3rd, so only another week before these decisions are made, but still, this should have been done before school so there are no phone calls saying "I don't know what to do with her". I hate hearing that line. It could be put differently, and sound nicer.
And I take blame for a great part of this, I should have put my foot down and demanded the IEP before school started, but, I didn't and now I could kick myself for it.
Lesson learned, once again.
Sharon
At the end of last year, we knew Laura was going to the high school. Talked to the high school sped people, in transition, going to a more open program, more inclusion, etc., but everything not in place. Can we have her IEP right around school start time. Sure, I can understand that.
So, go to high school everyday for a few days before school started, to give Laura the lay of the land. This was last week. Talk to the sped dept. head. This is what we will do, here is Laura's schedule. Talk to another sped teacher, can Laura join her class 2 days a month for community service, sure that is great, I like the volunteering aspect. Talk to her "main" sped teacher, we will have to have her IEP, yes I know.
Anyway, school now in session for 4 days. Laura says she loves it. She has a locker for the first time ever, and has mastered the combination lock, thanks to a peer system they have set up. They assigned a peer, she has worked with Laura for 2 days, they called today to ask if that was okay. Well, of course it is.
Sped teacher surprised at her reading abilities. Well, I told him about her reading, guess he didn't believe Mom. She is in a class called Business Applications, included. Teacher told the sped teacher "I don't know what to do with Laura. I want her here, but what do I teach her". Sped teacher told me we would decide at her IEP what "you want her to do".
So, we have finally arrived at my vent. Yes, I can understand wanting the student and family input on education. But I am not a teacher, and I hate having teachers call me and say "I don't know what to do with her". I mean, until the IEP is held, how difficult is it to adapt something for Laura to do, to learn. And the sped teacher, come on, surely he can do something.
This is exactly why I wanted the IEP held before school started. I kept getting put off, for various reasons, why it couldn't be done. And now, her IEP is Sept. 3rd, so only another week before these decisions are made, but still, this should have been done before school so there are no phone calls saying "I don't know what to do with her". I hate hearing that line. It could be put differently, and sound nicer.
And I take blame for a great part of this, I should have put my foot down and demanded the IEP before school started, but, I didn't and now I could kick myself for it.
Lesson learned, once again.
Sharon